A 22-year-old and a 76-year-old church friend now spend a weekend together every month
Iona Leaf was a student at the University of Gloucestershire when she noticed Judith Chapman, a church warden in Cheltenham, and started inviting herself over for tea so she could see Judith's cat. Iona is 22 and now lives in Manchester. Judith is 76. About 130 miles separate them. They still meet for a weekend each month, and they have just come back from a holiday in the Scottish Highlands. They cook, talk through ordinary life, and trade stitches: Iona crochets, and Judith has been teaching her to knit. Judith says the visits nudge her to keep walking and to show up for Pilates. This Christmas, Judith, who does not have children of her own, will spend the day with Iona's family.
A standing weekend with someone from another generation can be as ordinary, and as steadying, as tea and a knitting lesson.
How the friendship feels is Iona and Judith's account, told to the BBC. The cat who started the visits has since died.







